Looks does matter when it comes to women ONLY
Yes people that’s true, looks matters when it comes to women only , specially in Kuwait . I've seen Kuwaiti women looking just like the gorgeous Aishwarya Rai




Getting married to men looking like this Dude!!
Now don't get me wrong ! I'm not the kind of person who judges people on the way they look , I'm totally against that … I just wonder why can't we see things the other way around ? why do people make a big fuzz when a handsome man marry a "normal" or "less than normal" woman ? and the same people say nothing when a beautiful woman get married to a "normal" guy ?!
One of my "handsome" relatives got married to a "normal" girl , which I would never call "normal" shes such a sweetheart from the inside, caring , loving w 7adha san3ah , anyways they went to Lebanon last summer and like any other couple they went shopping and one of the sales girls was staring at them and said to my relative in front of his wife" I wonder why would a handsome man like yourself, marry a woman looking like a monkey" !
The same relative was sitting in a café in Kuwait with his "normal" wife when a bunch of girls passed by and were staring at him, all of a sudden they decided to sit in the same coffee shop and right next to the poor couple and one of them was raising her voice so that they could hear her , she said "sej idinya 7thooth , wela hal mazyoon eshayef eb hal 7oolah" !!!!
if only they knew how beautiful she is from the inside .if only they knew how she treats everyone around her with love and respect, if only they knew !!!
the first thing that came to my mind is WHY ?
why do people get very judgemental when it comes to women's looks?
why are women so mean to eachother ? ( ilgheerah sebayeb) ?!
why do women have to take the cruel ,insensitive comments about the way they look and should still keep smiling ?
why do people think that woman must look beautiful , but its fine if a man is ugly ! because a man "does not need beauty"
why is it okay for women to be objectified ?
why do women have to look like barbies to live a "normal" life ?!
why do kuwaiti men always say " i want to marry the perfect girl, and i aint settling for less than that" while the girls would go with what ever their parents chose for them !
seriously why ?!


simple reason.... women are bitches.. its build into our genes!
They are jealous, they see someone mega handsome who is with someone else and they automatically bring out their bitchy claws and insult!
I really don't get it (I'm a girl and I'm not that bitchy.. I'd never insult someone like that!)
To me looks don't matter, I really only care about the way the guy treats me and his personality. I mean looks aint everything... when you get old they fade anyway.. so why judge someone on something that will deminish in time?!
I really loved you post btw :)
Posted by
ananyah |
27/2/06 5:14 AM
simply, because looks doesn't always matter, doesn't matter to everybody and for everybody.
Looks may matter the least among several other things.
Posted by
Expatriate |
27/2/06 5:28 AM
Well to care about how a person is from the inside, then u r aiming to get things from the inside of a person. If u r aiming at something from the outside then u will not look further than his/her outer shell which maybe beautiful while the person is full of shit, or a normal or less than a normal person with a heart and an inside like gold.
so it's about what u want and from where u want it
Posted by
Diver |
27/2/06 9:06 AM
زورونا عندنا موضوع يونس
Baalaah.blogspot.com
Posted by
Unknown |
27/2/06 11:27 AM
There was this French entrepreneur,
very wealthy and not so bad looking... He was once interviewed and in the interview he was asked why he's still single...
"Haven't found Ms. Perfect?"
"I have" he said, "But she was looking for Mr. Perfect".
so there you have it... We, men, should get a taste of our own medicine.
Posted by
Abdulaziz |
27/2/06 12:58 PM
Sheeesh those were some nasty comments !
Posted by
Devilish |
27/2/06 6:12 PM
ananyah
"why judge someone on something that will deminish in time?!"
that's so true ,but people are no longer thinking like that, besides the first impression always comes with the way the person looks... i blame the media ;-p
you know what huts most ? they're no longer a couple , the woman couldnt take it anymore !! now those people must be very happy to destroy others lives !
guess this is ur 1st visit , it's nice to have you here , welcome =)
Posted by
Mother Courage |
28/2/06 12:40 AM
expatriate
i just wish if that was true !
let me ask you a Question , would you marry a fat woman ?! or a black woman?! aside from the morals and all ,,, would you ?
sorry brother , this aint utopia
driver
couldn't agree more
purgatory
Mmm... =)
Posted by
Mother Courage |
28/2/06 12:46 AM
neelaah , where is my commission ?
;-p
al-aqra3
impressive !! , by the way , is he still single ? does he know about me ;-p
glad you found your way here ;-)
devilish
yup !!! eve !! ops i meant evil ;-p
Posted by
Mother Courage |
28/2/06 12:52 AM
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Posted by
متفرغ |
28/2/06 3:05 AM
cant agree with u more, 3adel kalamej, at the end it comes to our traditions in which men are given preferences in many things over women especially in marriage thats why many will make a fuss when a handsome guy marries a normal woman because he chose her 'ebkayfeh' y3ni 3la mazajeh, while on the other side his counterpart won't have as much choice and a fuss would be made if she tried to do something else rather than marrying mr.fatty- or thats what i think :)
Posted by
متفرغ |
28/2/06 3:17 AM
hell yeah mother courage, if i have to pick, I would go for a not good looking girl with good morals and high thinknig standards and religion principles as apposed to an attractive, good looking, girl with low morals and corrupted, not religious girl.
I would be kinda dumb if i don't do so, i guess.
bas if I could find both fairly not bad looking and an intellegent girl with high morals and have all life standards based on religion, I would surely go with her.
by the way, I'm not saying this just to show off that I am religious and a good guy and stuff. La wallah, i guess 90 % of the girls in Kuwait would reject me due to my very strict religious standards in both life style and merriage relationship expectations. I live alone in an apartment with no cable or dish. All i have is internet connection !!
Posted by
Expatriate |
28/2/06 10:07 AM
متفرغ
well explained !
i thought that cultural barriers are for a certain social class. time has proved me the opposite
expatriate :
leish ent chayed chithee ?? edeen deen yusir w laisah 3usir ... as for "looks" and how it doesn't matter to you even when it comes to your "significant other" ... thats something i applaud you for.
Posted by
Mother Courage |
28/2/06 2:38 PM
هممم واي تكتبين وايد واي؟
والله شوفي يعني أكيد اذا واحد حلو متزوج وحدة مو حلوة الناس بيطالعونهم بنظرة مش و لا بد, يمكن لأنه الناس بتحس انه هذا ماخذها عشان فلوسها أو عايلتها
و يستغربون لأنه الرجل عنده حق الانتقاء فليش انتقى هذي؟ بس البنت لمن تمشي مع واحد جيكر يقولون والله ما ياها نصيب أحسن من هذا
أما عن الناس الخمة و الحيوانة الي بالمحل و قلة أدبهم فأعتقد انهم حالات شاذة , معظم الناس يمكن يستغربون بس ما يعلقون
شخصيا و أكون صريح يمكن ما ؤؤمن بالكلام الي بقوله 100% بس لازم أقوله
الشكل أكيد مهم جدا و يفتح لك أبواب التقبل و الارتياح عند الناس, لكن الشكل اذا ما كان مربوط بشخصية حلوة و محترمة فما يسوى وايد بالسوق
قابلت الكثير من البنات ملكات جمال و لكن أخلاقهم و معاملتهم صفر الى أن اجبروني على الاعتقاد بنظرية ان الجمال مو كل شي
عموما موضوع و ملاحظة حلوة و الله يوفقج انشالله
Posted by
Mohammad Al-Yousifi |
28/2/06 3:31 PM
eeeeeeeh ya ayam il sibba wel ga3da bel sainema thalaath sa3at emjableen hal wayh
ssay3eena akthar
Posted by
Temetwir |
1/3/06 4:01 PM
kila ma6goog
madrii laish ent mn bid lawadem ma 3aref arid 3la your comments !! probably because you discuss every point in the post, i do appreciate your precision =)
temetwir
ma tenlamoon !
sh64
1st visit, no ? welcome
"i think that same goes or applies for the guys.
or that how it should be anyway."
Thank You !
Posted by
Mother Courage |
6/3/06 1:03 AM
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... Kudos on your relative for being a true gentleman and looking beyond exterior looks.
And those judgmental comments are just unbelievable! If that sh!t ever happens to me, seriously, i will be kickin some serious bootaay :)
Posted by
moryarti |
6/3/06 3:56 AM
uh huh ,well its not only among gals , it comman for a guy to say "what da hell is that preety gal doing with that piece of crap "
But then agian ,its the manner in how we are bought up that infuences our thinking .
If u asked me whether i would marry a fat woman or a black woman , i could honestly say i would marry a "fat black woman "
As long as it makes me happy ,i dont give a rat's ass to anyone else
Posted by
Anonymous |
6/3/06 3:08 PM
well personally for me i never notice those stuff .. call me ignorant if you like bs i couldnt care less about who marry who .. .. those girls in the mall .. are extremly rude .. wo should be cursed with all my grandmother curses starting with 6aye7 7ath'hom to malat 3alaihom .. as moryati said "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" totally agree with him ..
Posted by
Sowhat |
7/3/06 3:04 AM
moryarti
amusing as usual =)
ashley
true, the way a person brought up maked a huge difference on one's perception.
Posted by
Mother Courage |
8/3/06 11:17 AM
sowhat
LOL the grandmother cursing thing is adorable !!
ruby
allah yi3afeech , thank you 7beebtii
Posted by
Mother Courage |
8/3/06 11:18 AM
homer al-simpson
true !... we all appreciate beauty , the problem is people can't get the idea that its gifted ! and we shouldn't judge people on the way they look, but we do !
Posted by
Mother Courage |
12/3/06 7:46 AM
nas sa67eyen..thats the reason
Posted by
Unknown |
17/3/06 11:10 AM
aziz
true
Posted by
Mother Courage |
29/3/06 5:27 PM
anon-of-the-dawn
kuwaiti blogs are not disappointing. you just have to pick the right blogs that goes along with your interests. thank you for your sweet words and welcome to my blog
Posted by
Mother Courage |
30/5/06 2:56 AM
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