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as you said what more than being close frinds ... any how i know what you feel .. i got a couple of friends who are like this ..i didnt want to lose them so i confront them with what i feel .. but you know what .. it was not that easy ...

i think the time had come to learn how to say the magical wordS "NO I WONT DO THIS!!!"

Well learn how to keep a distance away for sometime and they should know that you need to have some break from them :P

sowhat : i did confront them but they don't get it !! , i can't say No . i'd rather use other ways like skip or ignore or change the subject ;-p



hopeless poet : seems like a good idea .i'll try that. if they only werent too fun to hang out with !

shlon ya3ni theyre too demanding and never satisfied?
like they always want to go out, o ye6angiroon when u dont even for once, wela gasdich they ask for too many favors .. and all that

madri the 1st part didnt make any sense to me but ur right, in business theres no such thing as a free lunch .. but in friendship its a whole diff matter

just the way i look at it :)

temetwir


yeah they do that sometimes , they also ask me not to talk to a cetrain "type" of girls which are my friends as well !. they get pissed off when ever they know that i went to a certain place and didnt tell them !, its not like they're comming with me , they just want to know !. or sometimes they ask me about my "other numbers" which i keep for "school and work".
i just wish they'd understand that being my friend doesnt mean u control me . thats my business after all not theirs !
u see my point ?

mother courage
yeah, totally
da3aala zayda hathail .. atleast u say u enjoy their company, so that has to count for something :) allah y3eenich 3alaihom

give whatever u want/can give....if they didnt appreciate it.....just skip it...their not worth it
أكره الرفيج الي يتشره وينك ما تدق و وينك ما تدق و اهو هم قاطع و ما يدققق

thats true some friends are really demanding and it seems no matter what do you for them, nothing will satisfy them, i have a friend who keeps on nagging on stupid things such as why didn't you call me, i try to be coutreous as much as possible, and avoid to hurt his feelings, tried by indirect ways explaining to him that he is being demanding, but mafee fayda, allah yehadahom

kila ma6goog : walla u're right !. they dont keep nagging and whining all the time , sometimes they're so nice and fun where u'd think u never want to let this kind of friendship go ... others when they're so bloody annoying , u wish that u never met them before !
i think am going to ignore them for a while . lamma yeta3addal eslobhum ma3ai ;-)

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ee walla exactly , yesterday they were like a pain in the #%^$ , today they were sweet and all nice and neat ... they made me feel like am living in some kind of dilemma .

temetwir

hehe mashkoor 3la el do3a2 ;-)

shakhbary don't talk to this o don't talk to that, they have to understand that they have no right to control your circle of social friends, no seriously this is way too childish! I would suggest you sit and explain things to them but they seem hopeless with such mentality =/ sorry babe.

sponta : Unfortunately in some situations people do act so childishly

e ok some people that's them to blame bs face it you are allowing them to do that, you have an option, use it.

sponta , am trying to keep the distance for now . if it doesnt work then am gonna face them and make it clear ;-)

scary! really what do they want?

i would delete needy & ungrateful beings from my life